Mike and I have been keeping pretty busy while in Tucson. One of the things we did last week was visit the Desert Botanical Garden in Phoenix. Our daughter, Amy, went there earlier this year to see the special exhibit, Chihuly in the Desert. Dale Chihuly is a famous glass artist who does AMAZING things with glass. It was fabulous seeing the art amidst the desert landscape. As a bonus, there were lots of plants blooming, cacti included, and we got to see a butterfly exhibit, too.
I took lots of pics. LOL. I’ll keep this post focused on the Chihuly art. Other interestingness will be shared in a future post.
The place was crazy-busy. I think this is prime season for the facility since so many of the plants and trees were blooming.
I didn’t take notes, so I can’t share the proper names for each piece.
I tried hard to get shots without people in the background. Those yellow trees were in bloom all over the desert around Phoenix last week.
They also had a number of pieces on display indoors. I didn’t photograph every piece, but I think I got a few good shots.
I hope you enjoyed the pics. If you are ever in Phoenix, the Desert Botanical Garden is a lovely place to visit. The Chihuly exhibit will only be there through mid-June, I think. I really do feel like Spring is probably the best time to visit if you want to see lots of blooms, but I bet it is beautiful in its own way any time of year.
One thing for sure, you will see an amazing variety of cacti no matter when you visit. 🙂
On Friday, March 25, we were forced to make the decision all pet parents dread. We had to say goodbye to our sweet little baby girl. I really miss my dog. It hurts so much that I have really been struggling to find the words to say what I want to say.
Belle really was the best dog ever. How do I briefly sum up the life of a dog that brought so much love, joy, and laughter to our lives? She’s been such a huge part of our lives, especially these last few years when she was our only dog. Our lives will never be the same. She was such a special girl.
We adopted her in January 2009 when she was 18 months old. I met her first. She was a beautiful, spunky little princess with the cutest face and most expressive eyes. One look and I knew. It really was love at first sight. Not just for myself, either. When I met Belle, I knew she was exactly the kind of dog that Mike needed. She became his little girl immediately.
The bond was strong.
Belle was never a full-on face licker. She gave the cutest little tip-of-your-nose kisses that melted my heart every single time. She liked nuzzling ears, too. And snuggling her head up under my chin when I was holding her.
Even as she aged, and it got harder and harder for her to get around or even just to get comfortable, she stayed sweet. As her vision and hearing got worse and worse, she became more and more anxious and leery of strangers, but she was never aggressive. And she was always such a smiley, happy dog. When I walked with her, almost everyone who saw her would smile at her. She seriously loved walks.
The previous image of Smiley belle is from earlier this year. She still had some of that special light of happiness in her eyes, which we saw less and less as the weeks and months progressed. She had always been a champion at hiding pain and discomfort.
Speaking of discomfort, she HATED baths, but she was very obedient and didn’t fight them too much. I think her last full bath was before we went to North Carolina for Christmas 2021. We had to give her butt baths periodically because of her issues with urinary incontinence, but she didn’t mind them as much as full-body bathing.
She really used to LOVE walking. As her body aged and her senses started failing, she enjoyed walks less and less. If Mike and I both walked with her, she was happy. All she really wanted as she aged was to be with her two favorite people.
She couldn’t do much toward the end, but she sure loved car rides. Especially in the Mini convertible.
She loved being with her people and hated being left alone in the coach so we took her everywhere we went. If Belle couldn’t go with us, we stayed home.
Lucky for us, we have good friends who didn’t mind having Belle around. Or who hid it well! LOL.
Below is a picture of our three-pack. Before Belle, we never, ever would have imagined that we would have three dogs at once. We adopted Belle as a companion for Meg (upper right), but the age difference was too great. She ran circles around Meg, literally, and made Meg a little crazy, which drove us all a little crazy, too. So we adopted a third dog, K (left), as a playmate for our feisty little Belle.
It did not take long at all for Belle and K to become friends. They loved running and playing together. They especially enjoyed “wrastling” together, and so did we. It was so much fun to see and hear them wrestling! They made the funniest faces and sounds.
After K passed in February 2018, Belle was never quite the same. She didn’t like being an only dog. We did what we could to make sure she got lots of love and attention. And we made sure she had friends.
Her bestest friend was Zephyr, the miniature Australian Shepherd pictured with her above. We met him when he lived across the street from us. His Mama, Amy, was a firefighter and paramedic in training that worked long shifts. For about a year and a half or two, Zephyr would stay with us while his Mama was working. They had so much fun together and really did seem to just enjoy each other’s company.
His mama would drop him off at the house early in the mornings, while we were still sleeping, and Belle was always so happy and excited to have him there. The two of them were quite a pair. We are so glad he could give her the friendship she needed during that time. She even loved walking again when Zephyr was with us.
Her other two friends were Bodhi (a Lab) and Symon (a Golden) Richardson, pictured below. She loved their people, too, and always enjoyed staying with them while we were traveling.
The boys were much bigger and younger than Belle. Bodhi and her were friends first, then Symon joined the family. They were all very good together. Their house was a happy, safe place for Belle. She really did love their people, too, and I will forever be grateful to them for opening their home to our baby girl.
She really did hate being alone. I think she was always a bit anxious, but having Meg and K as pack mates, two dogs with big, extroverted personalities, helped manage and hide or distract her (and us!) from that part of her personality.
I have so many great pictures of Belle enjoying the outdoors. From hunting with K at the West Virginia place to just hanging out with us while we were doing yard work or whatever.
Speaking of hunting…
I am 100% convinced that the day she caught that squirrel at our yard in Maryland was one of her best days ever.
She chased squirrels at our Virginia house, too, but never caught any. She did come very close a few times, though.
I loved seeing her face in the mirror when we were riding in the Mini. Thats when she was happiest toward the end, when “going bye-byes” with her two people.
She was such a happy, goofy dog at times. Maybe she just put up with us, but we sure had a lot of good times and laughs with her.
The image above was taken just a few weeks ago in Las Cruces, New Mexico.
Walking was getting harder for Belle, but she so loved doing things outside with us. And we loved having her along.
I could tell that Belle’s incontinence bothered her. She always seemed so confused when she wet herself. We never, ever yelled at her for it. We just cleaned her up and assured her that it wasn’t her fault and told her that she was such a good girl.
Over the last couple of months, I’d noticed it was becoming harder and harder for Belle to maintain her favorite head-hanging-out-a-window position in the car while we were on car rides. She was getting tired more and more quickly.
I’d seen the light leaving her eyes gradually over the past couple of months. I’d known her time was approaching. Mike knew, too. We didn’t talk about it, though. We just kept hoping beyond hope that she’d rebound yet again.
But, when she woke up sick again on Friday, and continued being sick as the morning progressed, I knew.
She’d slowly been losing control of her bowels and it scared her. I will spare you the details. Just know that on Friday morning, I knew in my heart that it was time. That light had left her eyes and our little girl was suffering.
People always say that pet parents know when it’s time. It’s so true. I knew it for CeCe, then Meg, then K, and now Belle. It’s a horrible feeling. It’s when you know for sure that your beloved friend has been suffering and that they’ve finally had ENOUGH. It’s when you know you have to make the awful sacrifice necessary to end your beloved friend’s pain and suffering.
I knew it was time. Mike knew it was time. I think Belle did, too. None of us wanted to let her go, but we did what we felt was the best thing for Belle. We loved her so much.
She was so scared at the end, which made it even harder than we knew it was going to be. It was awful, but we stayed with her to the very end letting her know that she had always been such a good little girl. She was and will always be our pretty little girl.
She has left such a huge hole in our hearts. I know this heart-wrenching pain, like everything else, will pass eventually. But right now it is very raw.
Mike and I both love and REALLY miss our beautiful, extraordinarily special, happy little girl.
Until we meet again, baby Belle. Please know that Dad and Mama will forever be grateful for every single second that you were with us during our Earthly lives, and that we look forward to seeing you again when we get to the other side.
So, we are almost ready to leave Las Cruces, New Mexico and I am still not finished sharing pics from Big Bend/Terlingua, Texas.
I have just above zero motivation to use my computer these days. I think I am still recovering from the trauma of my last job! Funny, not funny.
Anyway… the coolest thing about our camping spot in Terlingua, Texas, just outside the Maverick Junction entrance to Big Bend National Park (BBNP), was that we had a pretty good 360 degree view of the sky. So we could see moonrises and sunrises as well as moonsets and sunsets. It was pretty awesome.
The next two images are moonsets.
Terlingua is a great jumping-off spot for visiting BBNP. If you decide to visit BBNP and don’t have an RV, or have a small RV or tent, look for lodging at the Chisos Mountain Lodge or Campground. You will not be disappointed.
One of the weirder things about RV life is that the days can sort of blend together. Maybe it’s not RV life as much as retirement life. It’s my fault, I believe, as my days don’t really have any structure. I’m okay with that most days. Until I think about the fact that we’ve been in three different campgrounds since we left the Big Bend area on February 25 and I STILL haven’t finished sharing pics from Big Bend.
In case there are new folks reading, we recently spent 24 nights camped outside of Big Bend National Park (BBNP) in Terlingua, Texas. BBNP is one of the bigger, more iconic national parks in the US national park system, and for good reason. It’s in a pretty remote location in West Texas on the border with Mexico. It’s a vast, magical place in the Chihuahan Desert.
Dogs are not allowed on any of the trails at BBNP. That wouldn’t be an issue for us if Belle was okay with being left alone in the RV. Alas, she is definitely NOT okay being left alone. Rather than both of us missing out on some of the things we wanted to do in the park, we decided to each take turns going into the park to do some of the things we wanted to do.
One of things I really wanted to do was hike. So, for my first solo excursion, I chose to drive into the Chisos Mountains and hike to The Window. (My friend, Lynne, says “La Ventana” [Spanish for The Window] sounds much more romantic. I agree, but the hike is publicized as The Window in all the park brochures, so I’ll stick with the English label.)
As I mentioned in a previous post, one of the more-unique features of BBNP is that it has its own mountain range, the Chisos Mountains. As noted on Wikipedia, “The mountain system covers 40 square miles (104 square km) and is contained entirely within the boundaries of Big Bend National Park, making it the only mountain range in the United States fully contained within a national park.”
It’s a beautiful spot.
On our previous quick visit to the Chisos Mountains, I’d heard the volunteer at the visitor’s center talking about the Window View Trail, which is an easy, 0.3 mile round trip, paved and wheelchair accessible trail that circles a low hill and features excellent views of the mountain peaks surrounding the Chisos Basin as well as a view through the distant window.
I explored the Window View Trail first. It took all of about 15 minutes, including photos! That’s when I decided to do the Window Trail. It’s rated moderate, has a distance of 5.6 miles round trip, and descends 900 feet through Oak Creek Canyon to the Window pour-off, framing panoramic desert vistas. During wetter periods, a creek actually flows through the canyon and must be crossed several times. Hikers are warned to use caution on the trail as the top of the Window pour-off is slick rock with no railings. The entire Chisos Basin drains into Oak Creek and out through the window. The sand and gravel carried by the water is what caused the rock to be so smooth and slick.
Footing on the trail was a little rough at times. I was glad I was wearing hiking shoes. Fortunately, there were “steps” worked into the trail to make the descent easier. I took my good, sweet time and paid attention to my footing the whole way down.
I so enjoyed getting a closer look at the mountains and all of the desert vegetation along the way.
That Agave was at least three feet (roughly one meter) wide and tall.
The closer I got to The Window, the more the trail started to feel like I was walking through a canyon.
I really enjoyed seeing the signs of erosion as I walked through the canyon. What an impressive sight it must be to see the creek flowing after a heavy rainfall!
It was such a cool spot. I couldn’t help but wonder what The Window looks like from the other side. I used Google when I got back to camp and found this image.
After taking some pics and admiring the view, I ate my lunch then started the return trek.
It was a lot easier walking down into the canyon. A 900-foot (275 m) elevation change is nothing to sneeze at, especially for one who is overweight and out of shape like me.
If I’d been thinking clearly before the hike, I would have realized the hike was potentially beyond my current level of fitness. I probably shouldn’t have gone to The Window — it was a struggle for me to get back — but the views were so worth it. I am really glad I pushed myself and made the trek. I’m also glad I didn’t wimp-out near the end and hitchhike from the campground back to the visitor center.
Rather than post all 50 images here on the blog, I created a Google Photos Album for those of you who would like to see the rest of the pics. There are quite a few good ones, in my humble opinion.
We were supposed to be in picturesque Carlsbad, New Mexico this weekend. Instead, we are staged at an RV park on the outskirts of El Paso, Texas, waiting for our Monday appointment at an RV dealer where we hope to have our finicky water heater repaired. Then, hopefully the same day (Tuesday at the latest), we need to go to an auto glass shop to get replacement glass installed for the inside pane of the driver’s window that mysteriously shattered last week.
Urban RV parks are not our usual thing. This park is older and was designed for skinnier RVs. You know, back when not every RV had multiple slide-outs. Spaces are very close together. Mike actually measured the distance between utility posts to satisfy our curiosity. It’s 21 feet from post to post. Our RV is 12.5 feet wide, with the slides out. In a site that’s 21 feet wide, we have an “extra” 8.5 feet. That’s barely enough room for a lawn chair, not that we’d want to sit outside in this less-than-favorable environment. And we’re pretty close to the interstate, too, so there’s traffic noise day and night. It’s a depressing place.
In the image shared above, you can see how densely populated the area is. You can also see Juarez, Mexico in the lower left third of the image.
We are hoping the water heater and glass repairs all happen tomorrow (Monday) so we don’t have to return to this spot in East El Paso. It’s definitely not a happy, relaxing place. The sooner we can get out of here, the better.
I’m not complaining, really. It’s all part of the adventure. Besides, with nothing else to do, I can go through more of my pics from Big Bend National Park (BBNP) to share here.
If you look at a map of BBNP, you’ll see there are several distinct areas. Our campground was near the western side of the park in Study Butte/Terlingua. On our fourth trip into the park, we drove to the eastern side to see Rio Grande Village.
It would have been nice to hike through the canyon, but we had Belle with us. At BBNP, pets are not allowed on trails, off roads, or on the river. Basically, your pet can only go where your car can go. Having Belle along limited what we could do in the park, but she hates being left alone in the RV. We both agreed we would rather miss out on a few activities than severely stress Belle out at this advanced age in her life (she will be 15 in June).
The best thing about staying close to the national park over an extended period of time was that we didn’t feel forced to cram a bunch of stuff into every day. Some days, we didn’t even leave the campsite.
Another good thing about staying close to the park is being able to visit at different times of day. Believe it or not, things look different throughout the day due to the ever-changing angle of sunlight throughout the day.
BBNP is truly an amazing place. In my next post, I’ll tell you all about one of the hikes I took while we were there.
We’ve been camped in Terlingua, Texas, a few miles from one of the entrances to Big Bend National Park (BBNP), since February 1. Knowing we were going to be here until February 25, we have not been exhausting ourselves, cramming myriad activities into each and every day. Some days we leave the campground and explore. Other days we just “do retirement things”, as Hubby Mike says. Retirement things include reading, napping, watching movies/other shows, stitching, blogging, making future campground reservations, etc. Essentially, whatever the heck we want to do or not do as the case may be.
This is my third installment about BBNP here on the blog, but that doesn’t mean we’ve only been into the park three times. On this particular day visiting BBNP, we drove into the Castolon area on the Ross Maxwell Scenic Drive, which ends at the Santa Elena Canyon. I didn’t think anything could top the views we’d seen on previous visits in and around the Chisos Basin. I was wrong.
The drive through the Castolon area to Santa Elena Canyon was spectacular.
The next five images are all of the same two mountains. I chose to share them here to demonstrate just how quickly and dramatically the views of the same two peaks can change as one proceeds along the road.
As nice as these images are, I still say they don’t do the place justice. We are so blessed to be able to spend time here seeing this amazing scenery first-hand. Hopefully, those of you who may not be able to travel to such distant places are enjoying these pics I have been sharing. For those of you who are able to travel and enjoy visiting national parks, BBNP and the nearby Big Bend Ranch State Park should definitely be added to your bucket list.