According to Plan, Kinda

In 2011, when we moved from Severn, Maryland to Warrenton, Virginia, the plan was to stay in Warrenton for 10 years and then move on after Mike retired. The plan was for Mike to retire at the end of 2021. Since he’s older than me, I was going to keep working a while longer. At some point over the past 10 years, we started thinking about traveling around the US during Mike’s retirement. I’ve worked remotely since 2006 and knew I’d be able to work from anywhere. I just need a reliable Wifi connection or cell service to support a hot spot for Internet connectivity.

If you’d like, you can read more about the decision leading up to the acquisition, check out this post for details.

Here we are with our new camper in August 2020.

The new-to-us camper is a 2016 Entegra (make) Aspire (model), 45-foot/13.7 m (length), Class A motorhome. The purchase was far sooner than anticipated, but we figured it would give us time to practice the whole camping thing, get used to driving the behemoth, outfit it the way we wanted/needed, etc.

Did I ever mention that Mike was never a camper? LOL.

After a wonderful Thanksgiving week excursion to Smith Mountain Lake State Park (we missed our visit with Amy, TJ, and family due to COVID), we did what was needed to prepare for cold-weather storage, stowed the RV away, and really started thinking about the many what, where, and whens to be considered.

As mentioned earlier, I’d been planning on working remotely for a while after Mike retired. When I accepted my most recent job in May of 2019, I let my boss (an old friend) know she could only have me until the end of 2021. She agreed and said she needed me to give her at least two years. I didn’t think that would be a problem, so I agreed.

I underestimated how difficult it would be to work for that particular “friend.” Couple the work stressors with family health issues and you might understand why I ended up taking a mental health break early in 2020.

Things weren’t much better after I returned to work in April. With the job stressors continuing to mount, Mike and I agreed that I should call it quits sooner rather than later. We just didn’t know when.

The US housing market was pretty crazy in early 2021. There’s a housing shortage driving prices up, making it a real seller’s market. Since the proceeds from the house are a large part of our nest egg, we decided to take advantage of the situation and, in mid-March, started getting the house ready to sell. The preparation process included a significant down-sizing effort. We got rid of a lot of stuff, including all of Mike’s woodworking tools and accessories, both of our motorcycles, both of our cars, and a bunch of household stuff that was either given to family and friends or taken to the dump. (More was re-homed than trashed.)

We’d already scheduled a visit to Indiana for the last weekend in March to get the sofa in the RV replaced, so we decided that would be a great weekend to list and show the house. Of course, that meant we had to scramble to get the house ready for showing. It was a real push, but we did it. The listing went live on Thursday, we got a solid offer on Saturday, and we accepted the offer on Monday or Tuesday (March 30-31) all while still away on the sofa-replacement trip.

Of course, that meant more scrambling to get rid of the rest of the stuff we didn’t want to keep, deciding what we wanted/needed to take with us in the RV, figuring out where to store our belongings, etc. We had just six weeks from the time we got back from Indiana to the time the house was scheduled to close (sign over to the buyers). We knew it would be tight, but we were confident we could get it all done.

When Mike had moved his retirement date up to the end of April 2021, I scheduled vacation for myself during the first week of May, thinking it would be the perfect opportunity to celebrate his retirement and test the connectivity, get my equipment set up for full-time work, get Mike used to relaxing or otherwise entertaining himself while I continued to work, etc.

Then, in mid-April, my Dad got sick. I left for Pennsylvania early on Monday, April 19. Sadly, he passed away on April 23. My brother and I decided to stay in Pennsylvania through the end of the following week to get as much done as we possibly could to close-out Dad’s affairs, get his house cleaned out and ready to sell, etc.

That all meant my own preparing-to-move timeline was two weeks shorter. My “vacation” from work May 3-7 was the complete opposite of relaxing. I knew there was no way I could go back the week of May 10-14, so, after talking with HR about options for my return, I took another week off.

We were actually managed to get everything done on time. The belongings we decided to keep were packed by movers on May 11, loaded into the moving truck on May 12, then moved to North Carolina on May 13.

We also had to drive to North Carolina on May 13 to make sure everything made it to the storage facility we’d selected. Then we had to return to Warrenton for the final pre-settlement walk through and closing scheduled for May 17.

Jellystone Park in Luray, Virginia was our home base during the actual move, May 11-17.

We made it. As of May 17, we no longer own our beautiful house in Warrenton, Virginia.

I ended up resigning the morning of May 18. Safe at last! That afternoon, we set off for Pennsylvania to finish taking care of Dad stuff.

On May 26, we headed south to Amy and TJ’s house to stay with the grand kids while their parents went on vacation. Then, on June 6, we left there for Ebenezer Park in South Carolina, which is where we are now. We will be here until mid-June when we head south to Florida to establish our residency, register the vehicles, etc.

I may get another job in the near future. Or I may not. I have no idea, Only time will tell. For now, I think I will just kick back, relax, and enjoy being an unemployed nomad for a while.

For now, the plan is just to live in our RV, making our way slowly around the United States until we find a place where we’d like to settle down. But plans seem to have a way of changing. LOL.

Me and Mike, May 2021

NOTE: we currently have no fixed address. If you need to reach us, you’ll have to use our cell phones or e-mail. 

22 Replies to “According to Plan, Kinda”

  1. Yep. I just needed to get into the right mindset. This campground is the first park that was part of the original plan I had mapped out. Up to this point, everything has been about staying at places convenient to wherever we needed to be to meet an obligation. Here, I’ve been able to just chill. It’s been good.

  2. What a hectic year this has been. But now is a good time to slow down and relax for a while. How is Mike adjusting to the lifestyle? Are you towing the Mini?

    Congratulations!

    1. @RichardM
      Yes, we’re towing the Mini – you don’t even know it’s back there. I equipped it with a braking system although I suspect we’d have done fine without it.
      The Mini is far more fun to drive than a Jeep or a lot of the other toads I see so I’m glad we got it (oh, and it’s a convertible too!)

      1. We are currently looking for something like a Jeep for a toad. The Prius was fine but it needed a tow dolly which was a real hassle. With the Prius, we scraped the floorplan numerous times while out on dirt roads so we were looking for a bit more clearance.

  3. How lovely to read of your adventures!
    Wishing you both all the best.
    Fondly, Janice (your soccer team friend)

  4. Wow Kathy. What a whirlwind you have had the last few months! I was looking forward to seeing you and Mike and Tom and Sharon but when your Dads service was cancelled, it was not meant to be. I wish you happy trails! Tim and I just purchased a condo in Englewood Florida, gulf coast. Maybe we will bump into each other in Florida. He is retired, I am working remotely when in Florida. We will be there Jan thru March 2022 and Mom will be with us. Be safe and have fun.
    Tracie

  5. Oh, my you sure jammed alot of decisions, plans and progress in a short period of time! I had a feeling you might be moving because things were looking a little different around your house. I am sorry to hear your Dad passed, we are at the age of accepting loss. It has been great knowing you and Mike and I wish you happy trails ahead. Enjoy life…that’s what we are here for…

  6. Oh wow… glad you have landed for a bit just to catch your breath if nothing else. Your view is beautiful! And easily enough to change when you want a new one.
    Enjoy your new adventures.

    1. I don’t know. We are going to look around a bit at potential sites while we are down there. It’s a possibility, but Texas is also attractive (Big Bend area or Hill Country). I know I need to make a decision soon, before places fill up. That’s been the biggest challenge of diving in to this lifestyle sooner than anticipated. The next few months are more about staying where there are openings than about going where we want to go. 😎

  7. Well done Kathy. My own transition to ‘retirement’ was a similar accelerating whirl of events (minus the gargantuan motor home), but included the loss of my Dad.

    I often think that if I could magically bring the me from 7 years ago to visit with the me of today, he’d be struggling to understand the path and the amazing result. The me from 30 years ago would be speechless.

    If you do decide to get another job I hope it’s kinder and gentler.

    On a final note, we have toads too, they’re Brompton bikes and they both fit in the trunk of our car.

  8. Hi, David. Yes, I remember reading about your retirement and move and career changes. I don’t remember your father’s death. It does add a whole nother element to the transition. Fortunately my Dad lived a fairly simple life and was proactive about making sure his affairs were in order. I’m guessing you’re still loving the Brampton bikes. At the moment, we have regular bicycles that ride on the back of the Mini.

    It’s good to hear from you. Thanks for checking in.

  9. Can’t believe I’m just reading this! What a whirlwind, and I’m glad all went well. Good luck with administrivia in Florida, and I do hope the TX hill country ends up being on your agenda in winter. We’ll be in Fredericksburg Dec – February!

Comments are closed.