I’ve been doing lots of painting lately, which is good. Since I did say 2013 was going to be my creative year.
The various items I have covered in color over the past few weeks have provided great creative outlets for me. The chalk paint is great to work with, but I have so much more to learn. So tomorrow, I’ll be at The Empty Nest enjoying another chapter of chalk paint training.
Back in early January, I told you about this awesome bench Hubby made for me.
He made it for us, really. I’m always on the hunt for something fun to paint. And he needed a way to tame the mess of shoes that was always scattered below and around the cute black bench that used to occupy that spot.
I’ve been working on it all week. Tonight, I just might finish the thing. So the big reveal will be appearing here soon.
I’ve got a busy weekend ahead of me, though. Tomorrow during the day is chalk painting class. Tomorrow night, I MIGHT go out to see a live band. Then Sunday morning I’m off to Annapolis, Maryland for a peek at the venue where my son Eric’s wedding will be held.
That’s less than two months away. GASP!
After that, it’s a bit further north to Baltimore for a lunch date with my Dad. Eric will be joining us, but Dad doesn’t know that yet.
Then it’s back down to Crownsville, near Annapolis, to hang out with my future daughter-in-law, Kelsey, and her parents. They mentioned going out to dinner, but after a late lunch, that might not happen. We’ll have to wait and see.
Finally, I’ll be driving back to Virginia.
More excitement is on the horizon, too. Thursday, the last day of February — another GASP — I’ll be going to PA for my annual girlfriend getaway with my two besties.
Now, if you don’t see me for a while, you’ll know why.
I promise to post a pic of the bench when it’s done, though.
I knew this Christmas — the first Christmas ever without my Mom — would be a rough one, I just didn’t know how rough.
It’s one of those things you have to experience for yourself to understand.
Back at the end of November and into early December, things were looking quite bleak. Really. I tried not to think about Christmas, but reminders were everywhere.
She said… “I could choose to hold onto these yucky, bad and heavy feelings. Like I am wrapped up tight in yarn. BUT….NO!” Then Tracey went on to remind her followers that thankfulness is a choice. And said she always chooses JOY.
Tracey is not one of those weird, perennial Miss Mary Sunshine types. She’s got ups and downs like the rest of us. Some pretty big ones, too. So I decided if Tracey can be joyful, I could also make a conscious effort to choose some joy.
It was truly an effort, too. Because all of those memories kept flooding in, threatening to pull me back down into that black pit of depression.
Once I decided to choose joy, I figured I’d REALLY decorate the house for Christmas. I may have gone a tad overboard, but I like it. Actually, the house needs more. Next year I’ll have to decorate the rear yard, too.
That’s also when I started planning my Santa ride, which was inspired by my delightful blog friend, Rachael, aka Fuzzy Galore (this world could really use more women like Rachael).
I started taking pictures of all the lovely store windows in town. Perhaps this evening I’ll do another circuit with no dogs and my “real” camera (though the iPhone does darn well).
Listening to Christmas music helped, too. Not many folks know how much I like to sing (I usually just sing when alone).
Then there was planning the girls’ weekend. I can’t forget my besties.
That weekend was followed by a weekend with family. And it took a lot to get ready for that, too. Like Christmas arrived four days early.
Amy, TJ, and the kids were here. So were Eric and Kelsey. We missed Shannon, but I had to force myself not to think about that either.
I swear, I have never had to work so hard to enjoy Christmas!
It all felt a bit forced, but it worked! Quite a few people remarked how “in the spirit” I seemed. 🙂
And today, which was slated to be a very quiet Christmas Eve, I got a really, really nice surprise…
We didn’t get a lot of snow, but lots of big, fat, white flakes fell and made walking around town delightful.
And, just to make things even cooler today, I got this unexpected gift from the aforementioned Fuzzy Rachael, which Hubby just brought inside from the mailbox.
How cool is that!?!
Anyway… enough about me. I hope you and your family enjoy Christmas this year. Even if things are not as perfect as they could be, choose Joy. And, as Dolly says, “Don’t let sorrow bring you way down.”
I was very fortunate to spend this past weekend with my two best girlfriends. It was awesome.
Sometimes, “best friends” sounds so childish. And exclusionary. Any friend, new or old, is great to have. But these particular friends, Carol and Tracey, have been friends of mine since childhood. So I think calling them my best friends is justified.
I’m not sure exactly when we all met. It seems like we have known each other since forever.
Really. It’s been about 35 years.
That’s a LONG time.
We’ve all been through and seen each other through so much together. We’re physically distant from each other and don’t get together nearly as often as we would like to, but that bond is and always will be very strong.
We all grew up together in Baltimore. Now, Carol is living in Southern Maryland, Tracey is in Central Pennsylvania, and I am in Virginia.
The distance isn’t insurmountable, but we all have pretty busy lives. Which is why we see so little of each other. But when we do get together, it’s always good.
Things are rarely rosy for all of us simultaneously. We all have our different struggles. So it’s not always sunshine and laughter. But even when times are bad, getting together with these two somehow makes things better.
I don’t want to get too mushy here. I just have to say I am really, REALLY glad we were all able to spend time together this holiday season.
I love you girls more than I think you know.
Here are some more shots from our weekend…
Tracey, like I told you, I really do shoot this church a lot. Especially when there’s a blue sky in the background.
I took that one just for you. 🙂
I am slowly getting to know some folks here in my new town. Working from home can sometimes be quite limiting. But I am going to make a concerted effort to change some things in 2013.
I’m going to get out of the house more, for one. It’s hard to make local friends when you never, or at least rarely, leave the house!
I am going to make time for my various DIY projects, too. Furniture painting. House decorating. Sewing.
I need to set aside more time for riding, too. And blogging. Although, to be honest, my blogging habits may have to change, too.
Anyway… it’s late. It has been a long, but wonderfully rejuvenating weekend.
Before leaving you with this one last image, I just have to say, have a happy week!
So, a few day ago, I told you about my drug-motivated trip to Philly. Which was extended so I could visit, however briefly, with Annelies. And I left you wondering how we spent our day on Monday.
She had to be at the airport at about 3:30, so our time was limited. We just wanted to do something simple that would allow us time to really visit, i.e., chat and catch up. That was actually the first opportunity she and I had spent any length of time together without the guys. Not that we don’t like spending time with them, too, but girl time is different.
On our way back to the hotel from King of Prussia, where we visited with Jessika, we passed a sign for the Philadelphia Zoo. After a bit of discussion, we decided that would be a great place to go. Neither of us had been to a zoo in years. And we could just roam around at our leisure looking at critters and chatting. So that’s what we did.
Our first challenge was finding our way back there. We used the GPS feature on my phone, since we didn’t have a map. Which sent us on yet another driving adventure. The thing about a GPS is, it tends to take you places via the shortest route. And that’s not always the best route. Especially when you’re in a city like Philadelphia, which is a lot like Baltimore in that the city center is surrounded by some pretty rough areas.
Twice on the previous day, I’d ended up driving through the hood. Once before I met up with Annelies, and once when she and I were on our way to meet up with Jessika. Annelies had never seen a real-life American “hood”, which is really just a poverty stricken area of a city where crime rates are much higher than in other areas. So when I told her we were in the hood, she said, “How do you know this is the hood?”
“I grew up in Baltimore,” I told her. “I know a hood when I see one.”
Maybe it wasn’t the worst part of Philadelphia? Who knows. Maybe you can tell me. Here’s where we were. (I never did show Jessika a map of where we’d ended up.)
I asked Annelies if they had the TV show The Fresh Prince in Belgium. Will Smith’s character was from Philly. I think it was South Philly though, which I had accidentally explored the previous day. When she said yes, I told her that could be where The Fresh Prince (meaning the show) was shot (as in filmed).
“He was shot?” she asked, very seriously. “I don’t remember him being shot.”
That cracked me up, of course. We had quite a few conversations like that.
Anyway… here are the pictures I captured at the zoo.
That was our zoo experience.
Check out Annelies’ suitcase.
At this moment, Annelies is moaning, saying to herself, “I knew I shouldn’t have let her take that picture.”
Not the suitcase picture (above), the shot I captured of her laying on top of that over-stuffed suitcase trying to make it close.
But I decided to spare her dignity for a change and not post that shot.
Not long after we got back to the hotel, it was time for her to leave.
I hate goodbyes.
But at least I know I’ll see her again in Italy. Yves, too. We are so looking forward to that trip.
I cannot lie. My recent trip to Philadelphia was drug-motivated. That’s how it started anyway.
Drugs and friends. What a great combination.
Those of you who know me well are aware that I work for a clinical research organization (CRO). CROs provide services that help pharmaceutical companies conduct clinical drug and device trials.
When I learned that my Austin-based company would be having a booth at the Drug Information Association (DIA) trade show in Philadelphia, I decided to drive up on Tuesday to meet with some colleagues. There were several at the show who I’d never seen in person before.
Originally, I was going to just stay for the day. Then my employer decided to put me up in a hotel for the night. Which meant I’d come home on Wednesday.
Then I heard from my friend Annelies, who lives in Belgium, that she’d be in Philadelphia for a sales conference the weekend before DIA. Since I don’t get to see her often, I jumped at the chance to visit with her. We planned to meet in Philadelphia on Sunday afternoon, when her sales thing ended. The deal was sweetened by the knowledge that I’d also get to visit with some of the other folks I used to work with.
I was tickled to see and chat with Annmarie, my former boss, who reads this blog but rarely comments.
Yes, Annmarie, I had to throw that in there. 🙂
Later, Annelies and I spent a lovely, long afternoon catching up with Jessika.
The three of us had a grand time hanging out together. It had been about two years since I’d last seen Jessika. I’m still kicking myself for not having someone take a picture of the three of us!
I didn’t take many people photos that day. But, since I arrived in the city earlier than anticipated, I did get to walk around exploring the city a bit.
That was actually the first time I’d been in Philadelphia. Which is crazy, especially when you consider that I grew up about 90 miles away in Baltimore. And I was in the area several times in previous years while working for a company based outside of Philly in King of Prussia.
I am definitely more of a country person, but visiting cities every once in a while is fun. There’s certainly lots to look at. And Philadelphia is actually quite cool.
I enjoy the vast array of sights. Like the “best Chinese food” sign. Does that mean not as good when eating in?
I managed to capture quite a few interesting images. Which, of course, I just had to share here…
That’s it for the city pics. But I do have one more image to share with you.
When Annelies, Jessika, and I walked into the King of Prussia Mall, this store window caught my eye immediately. How could it not? Of course, I didn’t see the sale” signs. Just the “BIG” and “ASS” signs.
So I asked Annelies to go pose for me. Not because she has a big ass or anything. Actually, she has a skinny ass. I just thought the signs were funny.
She agreed.
Then she immediately asked, “Why do I listen to you?”
Because it’s fun. It makes us laugh. And it makes memories.
I wish we didn’t all live so far apart. But sharing Sunday with the two of them was lots of fun.
Now, wait until you see what Annelies and I did on Monday…
Our quest to experience more of the state we relocated to this past October continued yesterday in quite a delightful fashion.
Good friends of ours, Kathy and Barry Spice, came down to visit for the day and we went on a wine tour. All that really means is we drove to several area wineries to sample the wines each offers.
I don’t know nearly as much about wine as they do, but I was responsible for planning the trip. So I based our itinerary solely on locations.
If there’s one thing I do know how to pick, it is picturesque locations.
If I do say so myself, I did a pretty darn good job of it.
According to the Virginia Wine website, there are “192 wineries and counting” in Virginia today. There are 20 wineries and vineyards in Fauquier County alone.
The map embedded below shows our itinerary.
Our first stop was Hume Vineyard. According to Google Maps, it is about 18 miles from our house.
The vineyard is situated on a 60-acre Civil War-era farm. Which meant there’s a picturesque barn on the property.
And an old house.
Hubby was our designated driver. For him, that wasn’t much of a sacrifice. Though he has tried over the years, he still has not acquired a taste for wine.
That was lucky for us. There were only six wines on the tasting card at Hume, but trust me when I say a lot of little sips of wine add up!
There were none that I hated, but two I particularly liked: a 2011 Viognier and a 2010 Rose. I actually bought a bottle of the latter, which I am anxious to pair with a meal.
Our next stop was Linden Vineyards. It was actually quite crowded and, from what I gathered from their web site, they cater primarily to their own “wine club.” I’m not entirely sure how that would have impacted us, as the general public is still admitted to their tasting room. But it was crowded. So we decided to skip it and move on the next stop.
The Naked Mountain Winery and Vineyard is on Leeds Manor Road, my favorite motorcycle road in Fauquier County.
It’s been around longer than Hume Vineyards, which is only a couple of years old, and is quite popular. Popularity = crowds, unfortunately. But we made the best of it. After sampling at least nine of their wines, all of which were quite good, we each bought a glass and enjoyed our picnic lunch on their deck.
Kathy had prepared a couple of yummy salads.
I bought some cheeses, bread, and salami.
It may not sound like much, but it was actually quite a nice spread. We all pigged out.
The sky was a bit overcast, and temps were on the cool side, but it was still a great picnic.
Our last winery stop was at Three Fox Vineyards. The grounds at Naked Mountain were nice, but I think Three Fox Vineyard had the nicest facility. Unfortunately, we weren’t crazy about any of the wines.
We weren’t sure if it was because we had just sampled too much wine throughout the day or what.
It really was a nice facility, though. In fact, this next shot, which is my favorite for the day, was captured there.
After that, it was time to head home. Kathy and Barry had brought their two dogs along. Max and Mocha hung out with our girls while we were away. They were quite happy to see us return.
If there’s ever any doubt, yes, five dogs in one house is a LOT of dogs. 🙂
It really was a lovely day.
And we topped it all off with dinner at Rancho El Paso, our favorite Mexican restaurant in Warrenton.
Great friends, wonderful food, gorgeous scenery, tasty wines… does it get any better?
Just one more happy memory we’ll all be able to savor for a very long time.