Torn

Having just returned from a two-week stint in Italy, lots of folks have been asking, “How was your vacation?” People seem surprised by my simple “good” response.

Just good?

Under normal circumstances, I would say fabulous. We did some very cool stuff, saw lots of amazing sights, ate a whole lot of good food, drank quite a bit of good beer and wine, spent quality time with friends, etc. But vacationing two weeks after Mom’s unexpected passing wasn’t “normal.”

I’ve never had to work so hard, mentally, to enjoy a vacation. Nothing against the people I was with, it just took quite a bit of effort to block all the negative stuff from my head and try to enjoy Italy.

Yes, it was good to get away. But the guilt of leaving was awful. There’s so much yet to be done. Plus there are a gazillion other things one thinks about when a loved one dies.

It’s sort of like having a cold. Mornings and evenings are usually the hardest. You tend to feel worst when you are at your weakest. Once you wake up, it all gets a bit easier to bear. Then every now and then things sneak up on you and, wham, you feel crappy again.

I’m slow on the trip reporting for similar reasons. My most-faithful reader is gone. She didn’t comment much — I always gave her a hard time for that — but she enjoyed reading the blog. Her form of commenting was chatting with me about my posts. She was always telling her friends to have a look, too. Knowing that just makes sitting down to do a post doubly hard.

I’ll get the trip reports done eventually.

I’m not apologizing for being slow, I’m just trying to explain why blogging just doesn’t have the same appeal for me right now.

Anyway… back to Italy.

I’m still on day one. That’s the day we arrived. Since we had some spare time on Sunday afternoon, we visited the Duomo (Milan’s cathedral).

Or at least we tried to.

Chaos at the Piazza Duomo

Unfortunately, thousands of other people had the same idea. The Duomo is old (construction began in 1386). It’s very big (supposedly can hold 40,000 people). It’s adorned with thousands of statues, stained glass, paintings, etc.

We were disappointed not to go inside, but neither of us could fathom standing in that line. We’ll have to go back off-season like my buddy Fuzzy who had the place almost to herself when she visited.

Seeing the outside was impressive enough.

Massive Duomo

It’s hard to explain just how big and majestic the place is. Pictures don’t do it justice. It’s hard to convey the sheer size of the place.

Same Picture as Above, Zoomed in on Statues

Click on any of the images on this page for a better view.

Because I had my zoom lens with me, I was able to capture some pretty cool images of a few statues and some other sculptures on the building’s facade.

The last image, shown below, is my favorite.

And that’s just a few of the statues. There are thousands.

Even if Milan wasn’t my favorite city, I’d still like to go back someday to see more of the Duomo.

Milan is Not for Us

We are finally home. We arrived Sunday after a very long travel day (about 18 hours from our hotel in Italy to home). It’s good to be back. It will take quite a while to go through all of the pictures, but I’ll try to tell y’all about the trip in bits and spurts.

We left home on September 1, flying direct from Dulles International Airport, just outside of Washington, DC, to Heathrow in London and then on to Milan’s Malpensa Airport. The initial flight was a red-eye that left Dulles at about 6:30 PM ET on Saturday and arrived in Milan at about 10:30 AM local time. There’s a six-hour time difference, so it felt like 4:30 AM ET when we arrived.

Flying Over the Alps

Rather than stay in an airport hotel, we opted for one closer to the motorcycle rental facility on the outskirts of the city. After all, that’s the whole reason we flew into Milan.

The cab ride cost about 80 Euros, which is just over $100.

Ouch, right?

We tried to stay awake, which is usually recommended to get over the time zone change, but ended up taking a three-hour nap. I was already exhausted before we left and hadn’t slept a wink on the plane. By the time we arrived at the hotel, I was so tired, I felt physically ill.

The nap helped. Our motorcycle rental didn’t start until Monday morning. Since we had some spare time on Sunday, we headed into the city to see Milan’s Duomo (cathedral church), the second-largest church in Europe that can supposedly hold 40,000 people.

No, that’s not a typo. I did say forty thousand.

We walked to a nearby train station and headed into the city. Sounds easy, right? First, it took us a while to find the train station. It was only about a quarter mile from the hotel, but you couldn’t see it from the hotel. The hotel reception clerk told us to turn right from the entrance of the hotel, walk to the street, turn left, walk straight and we’d see the station.

Keep in mind, we were in a town outside of Milan, not in the city itself. The train station was tiny (unlike Milan’s central station, which is HUGE).

Once we eventually found the station, the trick became figuring out the timetables, buying a ticket, finding the right platform, etc. After a just a little bit of back and forth, we did manage to find the train. And we even boarded the one going in the right direction.

Typically, for trips like this, I spend the week or two before the trip getting ready. Lining up all of the details. Like how to get from our hotel to the train station (I’d normally print a map in advance). Researching restaurants in the vicinity of our hotels. Writing down sights to visit and noting their locations on a map.

With Mom’s passing and everything I was doing related to that in the weeks preceding the trip, I didn’t get any of that normal advance trip planning accomplished. Heck, I didn’t even go back to my house until Thursday night. I worked on Friday, packed my bags Friday night, then we left Saturday morning to take our dogs to the dog sitter’s house (my mother in law), then headed for the airport.

As a result, we floundered a bit more than usual. It was all part of the adventure.

There were all kinds of sights to absorb on our walk from the railway station in the city to our destination.

HINT… click on each image to get a larger view.

City Scene

We were not hugely impressed by Milan. Granted, our visit was brief. We had no idea what we were looking at. We didn’t know where anything was. Also, we’d only been in Italy for a few hours and just weren’t comfortable yet. It takes a little time to get used to floundering one’s way through a world presented in an unfamiliar language.

Colorful Ad for Potato Chips
Interesting Architecture

For me, one of the coolest aspects of visiting Italian cities and towns was never knowing what you would find around a corner. We were walking down an otherwise blah street when I happened to look down a cross street and spotted the scene captured in the image above.

Very cool, eh?

Italy is the Land of the Motorbike

I never did get used to see women in skirts and dresses riding bicycles and scooters. Quite amusing, but also quite normal.

High Fashion?

People-watching was fun. Really. During our time in Italy, we experienced the full gamut of best- and worst-dressed people ever.

Mini Cooper SUV!

Hubby was tickled to spot this Mini Cooper SUV (the black one) conveniently parked in front of a standard Mini.

Who knew there were Mini SUVs? Now there’s an oxymoron for you!

Leonardo da Vinci

This statue of Leonardo da Vinci was quite popular. In upcoming posts, you may notice that I have a thing for statues.

Piazza Duomo

When we finally reached the square housing the Duomo, Hubby and I were appalled to see thousands of people waiting to get into the Duomo. Since we’d been walking past a mysterious line of people for blocks and blocks, we weren’t completely surprised. But still. That was a LOT of people. As much as we would have liked to have seen the inside, we decided just to look at the outside instead. That was impressive enough.

Now, had I done my research, I would have known that Milan’s central plaza (piazza, pronounced pee-ott-za) is one of Italy’s most-visited destinations. Not only is it the home of the Duomo, the Galleria Vittorio Emanuele II is also on the piazza.

Galleria Vittorio Emanuele II

This is apparently the city’s premier shopping destination. It was full of people, too. But the architecture was rather impressive.

Inside the Galleria

Here are some snapshots showing the storefronts in the Galleria of two of Italy’s most-famous merchants…

Prada
Louis Vuitton

We walked right past those. Honestly, we didn’t go into any of the stores. It was getting late by that point and all we both wanted to do was find a place to eat dinner and then go to sleep. Since the city was so crowded, we agreed to just head back to the hotel and eat dinner there.

Unfortunately, the hotel’s restaurant was closed.

Lucky for us, there was a supermarket nearby where we bought some bread, deli meats, cheese, dessert, and water. Then we headed for our room to enjoy a picnic/dinner in bed.

After that, we crashed. That’s how Day 1 in Italy ended.

I’ll share some of the images I captured of the statues outside Milan’s Duomo in another post.

Where the Heck is ToadMama?

After losing Mom unexpectedly, I was really torn about leaving Dad alone for an extended period AND going on vacation.

Somehow, it just doesn’t seem right to vacation at a time like this. But, we’d spent a fortune on airplane tickets and hotel reservations, which we would lose. Also, if we canceled, we’d be abandoning Annelies and Yves. And we had all been planning this vacation for a long time.

So, we’re in Italy.

San Bernardino Pass in Switzerland

The motorcycle riding portion of the trip was amazing. The mountains in Switzerland (Alps) and Northern Italy (Dolomites) are absolutely gorgeous.

We rode into Switzerland on Day 1.

Splugen Pass in Switzerland

I was delighted to see cows at the very top of the second pass we traversed. Y’all know how much I like cows, right?

We spent the next four days riding through the Dolomites in Northern Italy.

I’ll have more pics to share when we get home.

A Very Full Car

We returned our bikes to the rental agency in Milan on Friday. (Note to Fuzzy… Diego was just as awesome as you said he was.)

Annelies and Yves picked us up in Milan. We spent the night with them in their rented apartment in the hills overlooking Lago d’Iseo (Lake Iseo).

Then on Saturday morning, the guys crammed all of our luggage into their car, which is quite big by European standards, and we drove east to our rental house about an hour outside of Venice.

The Fridge is Packed with Essentials

This house is gorgeous. It sits on a hill and has a large garden with olive trees and grape vines. It’s very Italian.

Our House

Only the left half of the house is ours. The owner lives in either the other half of the house, or the other house that sits to the left of and behind the building we are in. It’s lovely.

I’ll tell y’all more later. For now, I have more vacationing to do. Hope all is well with you!

The Big Reveal

I can’t remember if I ever revealed the destination we’ve settled on for our 2012 vacation. If I did, I know I didn’t say much about it. Because there’s not much to be said, yet, as far as details go.

The important stuff has been taken care of. We have purchased two airplane tickets and have made deposits to secure our rental motorcycles.

This next image is a hint. We’ll be in that country, but will not be traveling in a group. How’s that for adventure?

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Some of you probably remember our 2010 trip to Europe. We did a week-long motorcycle tour in the Alps (with Austria as a base). We spent a few days in Switzerland with the Swiss Family Mac (who are now back living in the US). And we visited with Annelies and Yves in Belgium.

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It was a great trip. It was actually during or shortly after that trip when we agreed to a routine with those Belgian friends of ours where we’ll alternate continents each year to do a joint vacation.

They started it by visiting us for a few days in 2009 while touring the Northeastern US. We reciprocated in 2010 by visiting them for a few days during our trip to Europe. In 2011, they came to the US and we explored a bunch of national parks out west. Now it’s our turn to go to Europe.

Annelies and Yves aren’t into the motorcycle touring thing. So the trick was to plan a destination where Hubby and I could ride for a few days and then meet up with Annelies and Yves for the rest of our time there.

IMG_3950Now, if you are not a motorcyclist, you might not “get” the allure of riding in Europe. Not only are the roads amazing, and the scenery spectacular, Europeans actually embrace motorcyclists.

No, that doesn’t mean they all hug you at every stop.  Wouldn’t that freak my bashful Hubby out?

They respect motorbikes and happily share the road. That is totally not the case in the US. The US is the land of “I can’t let a motorcycle pass me, I have to be in front.”  People will actually go to great lengths so you can’t pass them here. They’ll even try to run you off the road when you do finally get an opportunity to go around them. Really. I am not exaggerating.

Anyway, we can’t go to Europe and not squeeze some riding in. After a little bit of back and forth between Annelies and I, who are each the vacation planners for our respective units, we decided on Italy. Northern Italy to be exact.

Hubby and I will fly into Milan, where we’ll pick up our motorcycles, and then explore Northern Italy’s Dolomites. Maybe even a little bit of the Swiss Alps. Our rental period is only five days. Meanwhile Annelies and Yves will drive down from Belgium. We’ll meet up with them for sure at the end of our rental period. We may even hook up during those first few days for overnights as they might rent an apartment or something near Lake Como.


View Amazing Passes in a larger map

If you look at that handy-dandy map I have embedded for you, the pink pin in the center is Milan, Italy. Directly above Milan are some lakes, the two largest being Como (above and to the right of Milan) and Maggiore (above and to the left of Milan). Maggiore is actually in Switzerland. That gray squiggly line is the border.

You may have to zoom in on the map to see that detail. For the sake of simplicity, I’ll call that the Lake Region. They may rent accommodations in that general area. So if we plan right, we may be able to meet up mid-week.

Back to the map… all the green motorcycles indicate passes we may want to traverse. The blue “P” symbols are towns we may want to overnight in. And that yellow suitcase to the left is Tammi’s town.

Hah, I forgot to mention one of the coolest aspects of this trip. Annelies and I met while working together. That was a couple employers ago for me. Tammi worked for that company, too. So we all got to know each other. They are both lovely people. Tammi, who used to live in North Carolina, just recently (April 23) moved to Switzerland. So we are all going to visit Tammi and her husband, too!

Whenever Tammi talked about moving to Switzerland “one day,” I always said I’d come and visit.  How cool is it that the timing worked out just right? Especially since Annelies knows her, too?

We’re all very excited.

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We still have lots of planning to do. I can’t decide if I want to make hotel reservations for the bike-rental part of the trip or just wing it. Winging it is attractive as the bike segment is all about the ride, not the destination. If we reserve rooms, we’ll have a stricter schedule. I think it would be cool to ride until we are either too exhausted to go another kilometer or find a town we just have to see more of. The only problem with that is the language thing.

In smaller towns, not as many people speak English. They don’t need to. And neither of us speak a lick of German or Italian. German is actually the official language of the region in Italy where we’ll be spending most of our riding time. More on that later. (Maybe.)

I have plenty of time to figure it all out. We’re not actually going until September. We’re hoping to miss the tourist crowds. And beat the snow in the passes.

Let the planning continue…